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“Yes, may all the nations praise you.
God often places a song of praise on my lips. The song is often from days gone by; while other times, a fresh new song pops into my mind. Most recently, To God be the glory, great things He hath done (https://www.hymnal.net/en/hymn/h/39), keeps playing. Amazing! Every time I sing a song of praise to my Father in heaven, He fills me to overflowing…with joy, tears of gratefulness.
“1 May God be merciful and bless us.
Faith at Home Moment:
“The Lord is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him” (Psalm 103:13).
I fondly recall my grandmother’s reverent posture as we entered the church sanctuary every Sunday morning. During my young impressionable years, I took notice. Soon after sitting on the pew, my grandmother quietly bowed her head in prayer. No one told her to do this, I thought. This simple act of worship remains in my heart and mind today.
Facebook friends: May the Psalms draw you near to God.
“1 Let all that I am praise the Lord; with my whole heart, I will praise his holy name. 2 Let all that I am praise the Lord; may I never forget the good things he does for me. 3 He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases. 4 He redeems me from death and crowns me with love and tender mercies. 5 He fills my life with good things. My youth is renewed like the eagle’s!
6 The Lord gives righteousness and justice to all who are treated unfairly.
7 He revealed his character to Moses and his deeds to the people of Israel. 8 The Lord is compassionate and merciful, slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love. 9 He will not constantly accuse us, nor remain angry forever. 10 He does not punish us for all our sins; he does not deal harshly with us, as we deserve. 11 For his unfailing love toward those who fear him is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth. 12 He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west. 13 The Lord is like a father to his children, tender and compassionate to those who fear him. 14 For he knows how weak we are; he remembers we are only dust. 15 Our days on earth are like grass; like wildflowers, we bloom and die. 16 The wind blows, and we are gone— as though we had never been here. 17 But the love of the Lord remains forever with those who fear him. His salvation extends to the children’s children 18 of those who are faithful to his covenant, of those who obey his commandments!
19 The Lord has made the heavens his throne; from there he rules over everything.
20 Praise the Lord, you angels, you mighty ones who carry out his plans, listening for each of his commands. 21 Yes, praise the Lord, you armies of angels who serve him and do his will! 22 Praise the Lord, everything he has created, everything in all his kingdom.
Let all that I am praise the Lord” (Psalm 103 NLT).
Faith At Home Moment
Reverence: Honor or respect that is shown to someone. A gesture of respect is to bow. (Webster Dictionary)
I sense a decline of reverence toward our Heavenly Father in our society. This saddens me. According to the Bible, “The fear of the LORD is the foundation of true wisdom. All who obey his commandments will grow in wisdom. Praise him forever!” (Psalm 111:10).
I know I fall short many times when it comes to honoring my Heavenly Father, through self-centered words, thoughts, and actions. My desire, however, is to please God by revering Him for who He is.
Teaching our children to honor and respect God should be a high priority. We honor God by making Him number one in our lives (at home, church, work, and play); secondly, we honor God by respecting others. Jesus summed it up this way: 37 “Jesus replied, “‘You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself'” (Matthew 22:36-40 NLT).
Help your children memorize the Ten Commandments, and discuss how each commandment honors God and respects others. (Read Exodus 20:1-17)
The Children’s Version of the Ten Commandments
1. Have no other gods.
2. Have no idols.
3. Honor God’s name.
4. Honor the Sabbath day.
5. Honor your parents.
6. Do not murder.
7. Do not commit adultery.
8. Do not steal.
9. Do not lie.
10. Do not covet.
Family Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, help me to honor you in all that I say and do. I can’t do this without your help. Please forgive me when I fall short of honoring you and respecting others. I ask this in your precious Son’s name, Jesus. Amen.
“I Love Jesus!”
These heartfelt words were spoken by Max, our 4-year-old grandson, who joins us on Tuesdays, along with our other grandchildren.
Eleven years ago I vowed to God, to “boast in the LORD,” so the next generation in our family will come to know Jesus, love Jesus, and serve Jesus.
One way I do this, is to play Christian music.
While sitting at the table coloring and listening to a Christian CD, Max proclaimed, “I love Jesus, Nana.”
Tears filled my eyes as I praised God for His goodness. I said to Max, “I’m so glad you love Jesus. He loves you, too.”
Several days later, Max and Emeree were taking a bath at our house. Instead of watching their cousin’s football game, they had found the dirt on the baseball field more appealing! During bath time, big sister Ella pointed to a picture hanging in our hallway, adjacent to the bathroom. She sked Max and Emeree, “Who’s this?” Max and Emeree shouted, “It’s Jesus!”
I am thankful that Christian music and a picture of Jesus stimulate the hearts and minds of our grandchildren, drawing them close to God.
All of our grandchildren love “Bible-story time” in our home and theirs.
I praise God for the opportunity to share Jesus with Ella, Jack, Max, Julia, Emeree, and Jocelyn.
Facebook friends: May the Psalms draw you near to God.
“1 I will praise the Lord at all times. I will constantly speak his praises. 2 I will boast only in the Lord; let all who are helpless take heart. 3 Come, let us tell of the Lord’s greatness; let us exalt his name together” (Psalm 34:1-3 NLT).
So excited about our upcoming mission trip to the Dominican Republic! Only six weeks away.
My granddaughter, Ella (11 years), and I will embark on our very first mission trip together. I’ve had a desire to go on a mission trip for some time; and about two years ago, I felt that God was directing me to pursue this opportunity with Ella.
This first blog entry will detail the beginning stages of our journey. (The complete story is written in the Memory Album I made for Ella.)
Two summers ago, Ella and I met an amazing woman named Sheila at children’s camp. Sheila was one of the camp nurses and I was a camp counselor for several children, including Ella. During our time at camp, I was sadly coming to terms that my husband/pastor would be resigning as pastor of the church where we had served for 7 years. Sheila made her way over to our table and began a conversation with me. Not having anyone else to share my sorrow and uncertainty with, I began to tell Sheila of my heartache. I told her that we would be looking for a church to worship at in the near future. Without any hesitation, Sheila extended a loving invitation to visit her church, Living Hope Church of the Nazarene. After putting my mind to rest, I realized that this was the church our daughter attended during her college days.
Sure enough, we visited Living Hope Church, and reconnected with Sheila. Little did I know at the time, Sheila and her husband, Dan are Work & Witness Coordinators and were planning a mission trip to the Dominican Republic. Wow! I thought this may be one of the reasons God brought us to LHC. Since we were in transition, I didn’t feel the timing was right to join up with Team Xtreme for their 2nd trip to the Dominican.
A year later, Team Xtreme, the mission team from LHC is planning their 3rd trip to San Juan de la Maguana Dominican Republic, to complete the children’s center, that will feed, educate, provide medical/dental care to 500 kids each week, and serve as their place of worship.
Ella and I attended the first informational gathering at Sheila’s home, where we saw hundreds of pictures of their past trips to the Dominican and heard the testimonies of those who have gone before. The mission team had ministered love in the Name of Jesus to hundreds of children and worked on the building project. After driving home from the meeting, I asked Ella what she thought about going on the mission trip. She said, “Yes!, but how are we going to raise $14,000 each?” I had to chuckle a little, because the actual cost per person for travel/expense is $1,400. From this point on, we have never looked back. God is on the move, providing for us to take this journey of faith to the Dominican with 28 other devoted followers of Christ (Team Xtreme).
Please join us in prayer, as we prepare our hearts, minds, and bodies, to be Christ’s ambassadors to those who need His love and grace in the Dominican.
Passion (from the Latin verb patere meaning to suffer) is a term applied to a very strong feeling about a person or thing. Passion is an intense emotion, compelling enthusiasm or desire for anything. (Wikipedia)
1 often capitalized : the sufferings of Jesus between the night of the Last Supper and his death 2 a plural : the emotions in general b : strong feeling or emotion 3 a : great affection : LOVE b : a strong liking c : an object of desire or deep interest (Merriam-Webster Student Dictionary)
People have a great passion for many things. Just to name a few:
Football – On September 29, 2014, the Kansas City Chiefs fans reclaimed the record for loudest crowd roar at a sports stadium. Chiefs’ fans made enough noise to register a 142.2 dbA reading at Arrowhead Stadium while playing against the New England Patriots.
Vacations & Fitness – (Online Advertisement) Take Your Passion For Fitness on Luxury Adventure Vacations With Reebok Fitness Vacations by Austin Adventures – Two leading brands in the active lifestyle and fitness worlds are teaming up to offer Reebok Fitness Vacations by Austin Adventures. This partnership seems to offer a series of vacations that promote fitness as a way of life. Now you can combine two passions at the same time!
Food – (Quote from chef blogger): “I have a passion for preparing and serving great food. I have a goal of getting a great meal on the table every evening in around 45 minutes.”
Attempting to trick Jesus, a religious “expert” posed the following question.
36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?”
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[c] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment” (Matthew 22:36-38).
I believe this is the greatest passion.
There’s no room to be lukewarm as a Christian. In fact, being lukewarm makes God nauseous.
14 “To the angel of the church in Laodicea write:
These are the words of the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the ruler of God’s creation. 15 I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! 16 So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth” (Revelation 3:14-16).
From the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus promises the following:
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled”(Matthew 5:6).
My life passion (mission): To intentionally pass down my faith in Christ to my children and grandchildren. 2 Timothy 1:5
So, what’s your greatest passion?
In 2015, why not cultivate a great passion for loving God, in your children and grandchildren.
Break the record for loving God.
Pray fervently and often.
Give up a favorite beverage (Starbuck’s, soda, etc.) for a month, and set aside this money for a work and witness trip or other service project.
Skip the family vacation one year (or more), and instead, spend this allotted time and money towards serving at a local or global mission.
Rather than wasting endless hours on social media / T.V., etc., use this time for personal and family Bible study.
Purposefully reach out to your neighbors with kindness and the love of Christ.
Intentionally share your faith in Christ with unsaved friends, relatives, coworkers, etc.
Use your gifts and talents at your local church. Serve together as a family when applicable.
Have a Happy and Fulfilling New Year….
by living a life of passion for Christ.
I was thrilled when our eleven-year-old granddaughter placed a stack of mostly one-dollar bills and a check in my hand. She said, “Here’s some money that I’ve saved up for our mission trip.” Just returning from her birthday party, Ella gave me her birthday money, along with some babysitting money, etc. I could feel my heart welling up inside as I received this unexpected gift.
Several weeks ago, Ella and I attended an informational meeting regarding a mission trip that our church will be taking to the Dominican Republic in June. The leaders shared passionately the love they have for all the children in this impoverished area. This will be Team Xtreme’s third trip to the Dominican Republic. Joining Team Xtreme, Ella and I will work on the construction of a three-story building project, and attend to the needs of hundreds of children who live on the streets in small hut-like homes. After leaving in our car from the meeting, Ella exclaimed, “Yes, I want to take this trip…but raising $14,000 is going to take a lot of time!” She originally thought this was the cost for each of us to go. (It is actually $1,400 per person). She then said, “I don’t need anything for Christmas, so I’ll just ask for money for our mission trip.” I sensed God’s pleasure in this shared moment with my granddaughter.
The gift of money that Ella placed in my hand was only unexpected in my mind, not in Ella’s. Ella planned to keep her vow all along.
As I later began to reflect on this sacrificial gift from Ella ($96), I started to think about another unexpected sacrificial gift that was given to the world, over 2000 years ago.
Although God foretold of His Son’s birth in over 100 prophecies, Christ’s birth came unexpectedly for most, but not for all.
It continues to amaze me that God chose a simple peasant girl named Mary, to give birth to the Messiah, in a humble stable that was home to barn animals. Scripture states that God sent the angel Gabriel to prepare Mary for an unexpected delivery.
The Birth of Jesus Foretold (Luke 1:26-38 – NIV)
26 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”
29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”
34 “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”
35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.”
38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.
From reading Mary’s response after the angel’s visit, we learn that she was not at all surprised when the time came to give birth to Jesus. Others who received this unexpected gift were: Joseph, the angels, and the shepherds. They all received the glorious gift of the Savior that starry lit night, in the little town of Bethlehem.
Luke 2:4-21 – NIV
4 So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. 5 He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. 6 While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, 7 and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them.
8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”
13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”
15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”
16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.
21 On the eighth day, when it was time to circumcise the child, he was named Jesus, the name the angel had given him before he was conceived.
I love the part where Scripture specifies, “But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.”
My Prayer to God
Help me Lord, to treasure up all the unexpected gifts that you give me throughout my life, each day. I praise you and thank you, for the gift of salvation, through your Son, Jesus. And I want to publically thank you for the recent gift of money from Ella, and from others who have recently mailed us sacrificial gifts of money to go toward the cost of our mission trip. They truly are a blessing!
Parents/Grandparents: Teach children to intentionally watch for unexpected gifts, and then encourage them to give thanks when they discover them. Christmas is a great time to start! And as we give thanks, along with our children, I believe that we are in some small ways, giving Jesus a birthday gift.
Some gifts that we may receive throughout the year.
– The gift of time (given by a loved one, a teacher, pastor, friend)
– The gift of friendship (a new friend God brings into our life)
– The gift of labor (mom doing the laundry, dad repairing a toy, grandpa transporting to softball practice)
– The gift of a hug…smile…warm embrace…
– The gift of grace
– The gift of mercy
– The gift of forgiveness
– The unexpected gift of money for a mission trip!
The greatest gift we can expect at Christmas–is JESUS…and His wondrous love. Be sure to watch for this God-given gift in unexpected ways. Then be sure to share God’s gift with those you love, and the “others” who are in need of an unexpected special gift of love this Christmas.
To all my blogger friends…Facebook friends, and so on…
With the love of Jesus, Charmé
Luke 2:4-17 – NIV
“You do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life?
It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away” (James 4:14).
“It certainly adds weight to the scripture’s characterization, life is like a vapor.” This is the response I received from a friend after notifying him of a mutual friend’s tragic death. It made me pause, then reflect upon my life. Have I been wasting much precious time with things that don’t really matter? Yes, I’ll be honest, I have spent way too many moments with worry, over thinking, harboring ill-thoughts toward others, spending money I don’t have on things I don’t need (or at times, even like), trying to figure out the end results, and so on.
Our most recent losses:
A friend, who was a loving father, grandfather, and faithful Christian.
Our friend’s son who died from cancer this past year. At the same time, she made the difficult decision to place her husband* into a nursing home.
* Charlie, a dear man, who led many souls to Jesus, including my husband. Charlie selflessly visited the lonely and forgotten at nursing care facilities and homes for the disabled. Now, as his life draws near, he is the one in need of love and care. His dear wife Marilyn provides this for him, during her daily and tiring visits.